It never ceases to amaze me.
When I am at a party, there is at least one seemingly self assured, confident, and boisterous guest that joins me in the consultation room and says "I really want to try XYZ, but how do I get my partner to try it?"
This applies to all of the following:
- toys (for him)
- toys (for her)
- toys (for them)
- lotions
- edibles
- positions
- anal play
How does your partner know you want to try something if you don't tell them you do?
As strong, independent, powerful DIVAS we must to make our wants, desires, and needs known. Not only to our partners, but to ourselves.
In 2012, Passion Parties experienced a "sexual revolution" if you will. Women trying new products, curious about new positions, and a new lifestyle. This "revolution" came about because of a little book that EXPLODED and is currently in the works to be a movie. This book helped women understand that sex can be fun, and different, and kinky, and gentle and loving all at the same time. It helped us expand our fantasies....
Not only were women fantasizing about these gorgeous specimens above biting their lip, spanking them, making them bow at his feet, dominating EVERY situation.... ok hang on a second.... I need a break... *fans self*...
ok, where was I?
Women were also learning to COMMUNICATE her desires with her partner and so making sex fun again! If you TRUST your partner, you can COMMUNICATE your needs and thus have great sex! Don't you deserve GREAT SEX?
Side Note:
I just recently read a book called Scorpio Awakens by Lilith Darville. This book has a fabulous example on communication and if you embarrass easily, I suggest this method to you and your partner.
The main characters (Tim and Kat) live in routine. They make love. They do things the same way. Monotony...comfortable and safe.
A man from Kat's past enters the picture, and stirs the memory of a lifestyle forgotten. A lifestyle to be explored once again. Tim has secret desires of his own, and with the help of Conner (the man from Kat's past) and a double diary, our couple is learning more about each other every day.
The double diary works because they write what they want to try, what they liked, how they would change it, etc... I HIGHLY suggest both this method of communication AND the book. Lilith is a talented author and I am eagerly anticipating more works from her!
Scorpio Awakens is available on Amazon - here
Scorpio Awakens is also available on B &N - here
Labels: communication, desire, scorpio awakens, sex